Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Why Believe: Truth - Why do you believe what you do ?

"The truth will set you free"

"I am the way, truth and life, no one comes to the Father except through me"

"I tell you the truth, until heaven and earth disappear, not even the smallest detail of God's law will disappear until its purpose is achieved"

"Make them holy by your truth; teach them your word, which is truth"

"Freedom is not the ability to do whatever you please, that is chaos, instead freedom is the choice to do what is right"

I find it interesting that in this post modernist world, truth and reality are subject to personal experience and interpretation.  The narrative, the personal story is considered the higher level of truth, irrespective of the actual facts of the circumstances, physical or metaphysical environment.

http://www.allaboutphilosophy.org/postmodernism.htm

To give you an illustration,  a man in Sao Paulo steals a car, next day he robs a chemist, while robbing the chemist, his car outside gets stolen, while he is looking around for his car, holding the bag of money, the bag gets snatched from his hand, he is so angry, he goes to the police to report his stolen car (which he stole the day before), while at the police station, the owner of the chemist recognises the robber and the police catch the thief.  While being interviewed by the reporter, he states he can't believe what the world has come to, that he worked hard for that car and now even the robbers and stealing from the robbers and the injustice of it all.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8kvLnx-Kw_I  (make sure you turn the captions on)

Now his experience tells me, his interpretation of the truth of the matter is incorrect.   He mixes the truth of stealing is wrong and unjust, yet perpetrates this truth value for his own gain.

Let me give you another illustration: A married man gets found out by his wife that he had sex with another woman. To his defense he states that he didn't realise she was a prostitute because after the act, she requested payment.

Another illustration: A person states that objective moral values exist. In other words, there is absolute moral laws.  Yet they also state that an external God does not exist.  If there is no external God, there can be no objective moral law, if there is no objective moral law, there is no absolute right or wrong, if there is no absolute right or wrong, then every moral law is subjective to the individual, furthermore there is no absolute evil, good or bad. (otherwise known as the Moral Argument)

You see, truth by it's nature is exclusive. Truth is boolean - it is either true or not true.  A half truth is not truth. For example, "Buddhism and Christianity can co-exist under the same faith" Buddhism does not require an exclusive belief in God or Jesus, so in that sense, there may be a way Buddhism and Christian beliefs can come together.  Yet Buddhism believes in different teachings to a different end state, buddhism does not believe in a beginning or end, salvation, forgiveness or righteousness.
God says, "i am, there is no other God but me"; Jesus states: "I am the way the truth and the life, no one comes to the Father except through me"....

My challenge to you and I is to question what we mean by truth and searching for it.  It really is a huge question, because so much of our world view, has so many assumptions baked into it's foundation that we assume are true, yet some of them aren't.

A final example: A married couple go through a hard time and separate.  It gets messy, court orders are involved, civil communication ceases, there is no infidelity, no grievous abuse or manipulation occurred, just plain old clashes of personalities and a feeling of falling out of love with the other. Marriage vows are broken, children suffer.  Both parties say they "want the best for their kids", they are going to court "to fight for their kids".... is that a true statement? Viewed in light of their marriage vows? "I will love and honor thee, in sickness and in health till death do us part?"
I say this not to cast judgement on the separated.   Let he who has no sin cast the first stone....
What I am highlighting is when we search for truth, and recognise it, as Jesus said: "it will set you free"
Free from the bondage of lies, deception, deceit and evil.  Think about it. I certainly am... 

Finally, truth has to originate from an absolute, otherwise, there is "50 shades of grey"... i.e. post modernism, relativism.

Think about it like this, "Love conquers all".  Who said that, why is that, who determined that to be the case.  If it does not have an author to it, then it is relative and not truth.








Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Honesty - but with a twist

First of all, it's great to be back for 2013.  Another year full of promise, opportunity and adventure to grow - our brains and hearts.

Before we begin this week's topic, i think this is a good piece of wisdom to reflect upon:

'Lord, teach me to number my days, so that I may apply wisdom to them"
(Moses, Psalm 90:12)

Here's the reasoning: if you and I work back from when we are most likely to depart this world (average age of men is about 75 years old), then we have about 30 - 35 years left to live, if you take away 1/3rd in sleeping, and another 1/3rd in infrastructure stuff, like eating,  travelling, doing washing and the like, then that means you and I have about 10 years left (accumulated over the 30 years left) to do what we actually want to do. No much eh?
If you ever catch yourself saying: "ahhh I'm just wasting time" or "ahh, I'm just killing time" or "my how time flies", then slap yourself and stop throwing away one of your most precious resources and spend it wisely!

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So, Honesty, it's an assumed principle that we live by, yet it's a slippery little sucker that is so hard to live out personally and in the world.

For men, it's a constant struggle
For the corporate world, it's something they are desperately trying to manufacture and come back to as a first principle
For legislators, it's in fanatical short supply
For public relations companies, it's been their enemy
For the despot, it's been their weapon of mass destruction
For the philosopher, it's been their double edged sword of seeking it and falsifying it
and for God, He is the author of it.

So God, in his wisdom, says in the early part of human life, as part of the 10 commandments: Don't lie.  (Don't bear false witness against your neighbour)

Funnily enough, Satan is described as the "father of lies" (John 8:44)

Deceit in the heart of men is awful.  I do loath it in myself and the notion that I am dishonest is a character trait I never want pinned to my personhood.

But here's today's twist on this topic: Honesty is some circumstances is being promoted and glorified above the abhorrent behaviour that is being 'honestly' exposed.

Let me explain, something we see time and time again, especially played out in the celebrity or public profile world:

Person acts inappropriately, sinfully, abhorrent behaviour, he's caught in the act, or pushed into a corner where the truth is about to come out, sometimes not, sometimes he just wants to tell his story (either to make money or get recognition perhaps).
He "comes out", he becomes honest with himself and tells the word what he did wrong, sometimes apologising, sometimes not.  BUT! and this is a big BUT, the world (especially the media), glorify him for being honest, uphold him to be a man of great character, of integrity for his 'honesty', for 'coming clean', he's welcomed back with open arms, and Oprah hugs him and says "well done, my amazing celebrity!" and the world claps and cheers him on and off stage....

No mention of the carnage he just left, the lives he deceived  the medals he stole, the children he lied to and let down, the wife he destroyed...

Accountability to your actions have somehow been bypassed and instead the perpetrator has become the victim and because of his "cathartic" experience of "being honest", he's now the hero for doing so.

Lance Armstrong is about to do it this week in an interview with Oprah.  You watch

Tiger Woods, Silvio Berlusconi, Bob Hawke, Russell Brand, Jesse Fink.

Here's an article that typifies what we're discussing today: http://www.dailylife.com.au/life-and-love/real-life/sex-after-separation-20120831-254qj.html

reviewers have praised it" Hard hitting, honest, compelling, raw, fascinating..."

Another case, there we were last year watching the TV miniseries on Bob Hawke and his adulterous relationship with Blanche. Glorifying this "love" (should I say lust) for another women.

"My son, pay attention to my wisdom, turn your ear to my words of insight, that you may maintain discretion and your lips preserve knowledge" (Proverbs 5: 1-2)

"I wisdom dwell together with prudence, I possess knowledge and discretion" (Proverbs 8:12)

Now hear me straight, I esteem honesty and the right and true process for coming clean and facing up to our deceit. But at the expense of telling the whole world about the details of that deceit and making it a public spectacle or commercial value...

What will the daughter say of Jesse Fink? When she reads what her father has done at 10 years old?

What will Lance's kids think?

Why glorify the details over above the actual act of being honest?

I guess my challenge to myself is to maintain honesty as a valuable character trait and not buy the lie of telling the world my sordid stories in the hope that it will give me attention for all the wrong reasons...?

Onerepulic

Secrets

I need another story
Something to get off my chest
My life gets kinda boring
Need something that I can confess

'Til all my sleeves are stained red
From all the truth that I've said
Come by it honestly I swear
Thought you saw me wink, no
I've been on the brink, so

Tell me what you want to hear
Something that'll light those years
Sick of all the insincere
I'm gonna give all my secrets away

This time
Don't need another perfect lie
Don't care if critics ever jump in line
I'm gonna give all my secrets away

My God
Amazing that we got this far
It's like we're chasing all those stars
Driving shiny big black cars

And everyday I see the news, all the problems that we could solve
And when a situation rises, just write it into an album
Seen it straight to gold
I don't really like my flow, no, so

Tell me what you want to hear
Something that'll light those years
Sick of all the insincere
I'm gonna give all my secrets away

This time
Don't need another perfect lie
Don't care if critics ever jump in line
I'm gonna give all my secrets away

Oh, got no reason, got not shame
Got no family I can blame
Just don't let me disappear
I'mma tell you everything

So tell me what you want to hear
Something that'll light those years
Sick of all the insincere
I'm gonna give all my secrets away

This time
Don't need another perfect lie
Don't care if critics ever jump in line
I'm gonna give all my secrets away

So tell me what you want to hear
Something that'll light those years
Sick of all the insincere
I'm gonna give all my secrets away

This time
Don't need another perfect lie
Don't care if critics ever jump in line
I'm gonna give all my secrets away

All my secrets away
All my secrets away

More lyrics: http://www.lyricsmode.com/lyrics/o/one_republic/